Since 2020 and the resulting behaviors of nonchalance to hair upkeep
, what is the longest you can go without combing/detangling? Some of you may dismiss this question because you were lucky enough to recover from the last few years. However, there are still those who subliminally carry the chaos of that period!
Ever so often, I have guests that finally come to terms with
their situation and decide to ask for help in combing/detangling their hair. We are successful in some situations and a big chop may be the result, but for others, a bald cut is the only solution. You may think it is happening to people that look physically unwell, no, these are people you may be interacting with every day. They look normal but inside there is turmoil
As a hairstylist, we are often asked the question ”what is the longest you can go
without combing/detangling?’. The answer depends on:
- How often do you get the ends of your hair trimmed?
- How often do you comb or detangle your hair, i.e. once a week, every day, every month?
- Have you done a chemical service such as a color, relaxer, perm to your hair?
- What length is your hair?
- What tools do you use to comb/detangle your hair?
- What hair products do you use on your hair?
Too many questions? Not really, because I need to know what part of a person’s routine
led to this situation. Also, it gives me the opportunity to ask personal questions if they are hesitant to answer. A lot of times the problem came from relationships, loneliness, stress, health and beginning mental health issues. The hair is just a physical picture of the problem.
- For normal hair, I would say one should try to comb/detangle once a day. Most of the time, the person with the hair in knots shows up with their hair in a ponytail. A ponytail is an easy way to get all your hair together with little fuss. That is, if you remove it every day, brush your hair out before putting it back.
- The other scenario is they would have them in cornrows or braids. While you may not have to remove them every day, two to three weeks is a good stretch for cornrows and two months for single braids.
If a person who shows up with extremely tangled hair, asks “what is the longest you can go without combing/detangling?” you have to decide if they may be having mental health issues they are not aware of or accepting and if what you say will cause a relapse or help them move forward. Being honest about their situation is always the best policy even if you lose the client.
By Paula Barker, Silkie Locks Hair Design
Books: “Talking Hair”, “Filling My Head” & “Dreadlocks – A Hairstylist’s Manifest”.
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